From someone who has lost 6 figures in the past month due to the usage of escrow systems, I must say that this post is highly irrelevant and purely based on semantics.
You would have to be utterly stupid to F/E for a new vendor with no feedback, and just as utterly stupid to think that a vendor who has 100+ transactions with 100% positive feedback is going to risk his possible 7 figure salary to fuck one person.
You are not analyzing the facts from both perspectives because you've never been a vendor so you cannot.
So lets analyze:
Risk on the buyers end to F/E is based upon the actions of the vendor they are dealing with. Is the vendor honest? Does he have feedback to support his honesty? Transactional volume combined with feedback? Substantial history within the deepweb markets?
Things you cannot prevent:
Exit scams. Closing of the site due to 'hacking' or 'fbi shut down'.
Yet ironically, the ONLY reason that my customers from BMR/TM got their product was because they F/E'd. 99% of those who did not finalize early and their funds were left in limbo did not get their products from vendors all across TM/BMR.
Now, how do you think it feels as a buyer to have your money stolen? Pretty shitty right? To have your funds tied up in escrow and BAM the site goes down, or 'gets hacked' and suddenly the vendor has no chance of getting his funds so why the hell would he ship your product?
Your ignorance of the reality of the fragality of the deepweb markets astounds me. Have you been living underneath a rock? Nothing is stable, and everything is plausibly compromised or targetted to the point where a 'shut down' could occur at any moment. And YOUR funds in YOUR wallet as a buyer is just as susceptable as MY funds in MY wallet.
The escrow system is a valuable tool for resolution between buyers and sellers, but the MAIN POINT here is that regardless of the situation it is ultimately up to YOU to determine who you buy your product from. Are you going to buy it from someone who is reputable, or are you going to penny pinch and take a risk with someone who has no reputation?
Sadly, it is the ignorance of users like you that sets my business up for failure. If I do not use the escrow system, as a BULK dealer then no one wants to risk that large amount of money for F/E unless they are previous customers. This mean's that by requiring F/E I loose all potential new business and things are slow as shit.
So im forced to use the escrow system, to risk (again) 6 figures of money that could at any moment come crashing down and topple my business flat on its ass and set me back to scratch for the THIRD time since i've started vending. Imagine working for a entire year, only to get scammed, loose all your money, start over, get scammed again, loose all your money, start over and get scammed again?
Please be responsible in all of your actions. There are times to consider F/E and there are times to use the escrow system, but your lopsided viewpoint that you should 'NEVER F/E' is ignorant at best.
Green,
maybe you missunderstood my viewpoint, but for the most part we are on the same page, so you ranting about my ignorance seems misplaced.
I've already espoused that I am NOT a vendor nor will I ever be, and that I am trying to comprehend the predicament that the vendors are in, so please, don't sit on your high vendor throne and be disrespectful. I've put a lot of thought into this and have asked for solutions, not attacks about a person's thought processes.
Additionally, I'm not sure how this post is at all irrelevant, it is VERY relevant to the state of the marketplace and to doing business and as can be seen by numerous posts about people being scammed through FE, it is hitting customers (especially the newer ones) hard.
I'd like to comment on a few things that you've stated in order of their appearance from your post:
1. You state that the only reason customers had received their product over on BMR/TM was because they FE'ed as opposed to letting their funds sit in escrow. Unless I am reading that wrong, that would imply after the customer had purchased the listing (allowing them access to the escrow system), the vendor didn't ship the product. That is not a customer issue, that is the vendor being negligent in keeping up with his/her affairs in shipping. How is that at all applicable to whether or not FE is a good practice? And why would FE'ing all of the sudden make a vendor ship the product any more promptly? I am confused what you are getting at with this point.
2. You state - "how do you think it feels as a buyer to have your money stolen? Pretty shitty right? To have your funds tied up in escrow and BAM the site goes down, or 'gets hacked' and suddenly the vendor has no chance of getting his funds so why the hell would he ship your product?"
Well, it feels horrible. I know. I've been there too. Just not on a scale of loss as high as the vendors. Again, how does this pertain to the customer being required to FE? What you say in your next sentence is the reason why and is the exact point i mentioned in my post if you were to read it instead of calling me ignorant. The "fragility" of the darknet markets. But my point I made was not that FE WASN'T a good tool to mitigate loss for the vendor (because it is in fact an excellent way), but that the risk of doing business (i.e. fragility of the website), should NOT be transferred to your buyers (through FE'ing), whom are not as well-equipped to handle loss as a vendor with a lot more suppliers and purchasers at hand.
I understand that my funds in my wallet are at risk and that so are yours. I only deposit what I need to purchase listings and I understand that you do not have the luxury that I do with money tied up in escrow for long periods of time. But what I am saying is that requiring FE is a short-cut solution to a vendor problem that puts all the risk on the buyer's and leave the vendor in a much more authoritative position in the bargaining process - one which has left many customers scammed out of money and product, with ZERO recourse.
3. you state: "the MAIN POINT here is that regardless of the situation it is ultimately up to YOU to determine who you buy your product from."
I think everyone would agree with this. This is not in discussion. I even make reference to this exact point in my tips in the original post. I also agree that the escrow system is a valuable tool in the resolution of disputes with vendors. The problem lies in the fact that vendors are foregoing the use of the escrow system to counteract the "fragility" of these websites to protect themselves. And I go back to my point above that if you can't vend without taking into account losses, then you should not be in this game. I'm not saying losing 6 figures is FAIR by no means, but when it comes down to who can better absorb the loss, it is the vendor, not the customer. And obviously, you can absorb those losses as you are still here vending with your product. How this ties in with why we shouldn't FE is that vendors are requiring FE to mitigate the risk of doing business here by shifting it onto the buyers. This is not about using the escrow system as a good dispute resolution tool, this is about vendors making sure that everything goes smoothly for them on their end (WHICH I AGREE IS TOTALLY WARRANTED after what has happened in the recent past). My point is that we must think of another way to achieve this aside from using FE - (i.e. - for example something such as TheMarketPlace uses would counteract any shutdown). Because shifting it onto the buyers so that everything goes well for the vendor is not good business. The FE solution is not even a "meet you half way" solution. It's a solution that 100% favors the vendor and opens the buyer up to an array of risk, such as full-out scamming, or selective scamming.
4. you state: "Sadly, it is the ignorance of users like you that sets my business up for failure. If I do not use the escrow system, as a BULK dealer then no one wants to risk that large amount of money for F/E unless they are previous customers. This mean's that by requiring F/E I loose all potential new business and things are slow as shit."
I understand your frustration with the current system Green, but I fail to see how the desire to use the escrow system is the reason your business will fail. This is the system that has been in place for over 2 years that worked extremely well for SR1 and all the other darknet markets. The reason you said that it failed was not because the escrow system was flawed, but that the WEBSITES were flawed. If the websites had cold storage failsafe backups remote from the servers of SR when the websites were compromised, the coins would be released to those storages and everything would have still been just peachy. Times are changing, but don't blame your current losses on a system that has worked perfectly well. I addressed your exact problem in my post above and you yourself recognize the solution but have no patience. You realize you can't require customers to FE on large orders, so that means that you will have lots of orders in escrow. The exact solution that i wrote above (and by no means it is the proper solution) was that in this case, the vendor must only list as many auctions as he can afford to lose in escrow and then must suspend his other listings until the escrow has been released. You said it yourself, business would be "slow as shit." Well, as I said before, that is the price the vendor must pay for safety to do business on this site.
And as I also stated above, this is a market built on trust and trust alone and vendor's need to earn that through hard work, prompt, courteous and respecful customer service, and diligent planning based on the marketplace conditions. If a vendor has done that, he won't need to ask for FE as his buyer's will FE out of respect for a distinguished vendor. When you have distinguished yourself enough, through patience and good customer service, your business will grow. People will be willing to FE without you requiring it, and you will have the ability to list more postings and to grow your profit more.
I am all open for constructive criticism about my thought processes, the solutions I've proferred, differen viewpoints from the vendors and customers alike, and anything else that would be constructive to this pressing issue.
Let's please keep it directed to the issue of requiring FE and not resort to personal attacks.
Like I have repeated a few times now, I am NOT a vendor and will never be one. I don't know the inner workings of the vendors and admit that openly. Thus I will obviously make wrong assumptions in my posts and I apologize, but these assumptions are in no way meant to be fact and are open to correction. That is why I am asking vendors to express their concerns and also discuss potential solutions
Thank you for reading.
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