FC, the thing I love about these forums (and, in particular, the Ladies of SR thread), is that there are people who are more than happy to jump in and help you with your sincere queries. I don't think anybody could possibly be bothered about your deviation from pleasant, idle chatter - this thread is a great place to give and receive advice, and I think all the ladies here will agree that you should never be worried about taking things off topic, and be more inclined to just state what's on your mind. Keep up the wonderful work, ladies. V