Quote from: DefyCode on September 04, 2013, 06:43 pmQuote from: SelfSovereignty on September 04, 2013, 05:40 pmQuote from: DefyCode on September 02, 2013, 06:01 pmHere's a question! As securely as you can describe it, how is everyone's love life?I'm single, the fucker and I were engaged, a few months prior to wedding day, the rumors come in that he cheated, he confessed, and now here I am lol.:)Pardon the male interruption and all, but you know... this may have been a little short sighted. Some research study that I didn't verify well enough to know the name of (hey, do you actually check everything you find, or do you trust a reputable source too, heh?) said that 33% of men _admitted_ to cheating to an _anonymous_ individual. I can only assume the real number is higher, perhaps closer to 50%.Of those, you had one who was honest enough to admit it, despite the obvious risks. You taught him that was a mistake, and in the process lost an honest -- if not faithful -- companion. Just a thought, that's all.Are you saying I should've considered not leaving him because of his honesty? That perhaps his honesty made him a keeper in-spite of his dick being inside another vagina less than 90 days before our wedding?I'm saying that it's possible you made a mistake. Given the strength of your response though, it's obvious you consider monogamy synonymous with loyalty -- and so you did not make a mistake. I apparently did when I said that :P