Anxiety is about the only thing that actually does stop me from getting erections... well, that and the rare occasions when I haven't slept or eaten for 3+ days, but even then I usually get them just fine -- it's maintaining them that's the problem... I don't know why anxiety does it to me when even being black out drunk or out of my skull on drugs doesn't, but if I end up self conscious I start having the same problem as you.... I don't really have a point. It doesn't bother me much honestly (it's rare for me), but since you seem to be sensitive about it I thought I'd point out that it isn't just you. Not really sure why it's so embarrassing for most guys, to be frank. It isn't the only part of our anatomy that can be a good time, after all. If you really have problems with it, you've come to the right place -- somebody around here can help you get a little blue pill, I'm sure :)