Well its safe to say it ain't coming mate so you are at the mercy of the vendor I'm afraid as you are not in escrow. I get it by the way, I FE all the time for a few very select number of trusted vendors because without doing that I wouldn't be able to order from them, I know the risk and I take full responsibility should anything go wrong. I think this is one of those situations mate, I just hope it wasn't bigger than an 8 ball