I've got no vested interest here and have no real understanding of kitkats situation and nor do I want too but I was quite shocked at some of the unhelpful comments posted in this thread. Everyone is entitled to an opinion but seriously whatever you may think about her just pause for a moment and consider what you are posting, sometimes if you can't say anything nice it's better to say nothing at all. She needs professional help and whatever her reasons for posting in here she is clearly reaching out for something be that support, advise, attention or whatever, she certainly doesn't need yet more pain and misery. At consider that before posting.