Well not only do I agree with you...I clearly was not talking about vendors that list that is what they do!!!!!!!! It is like the great example Ben gave...if a vendor states they do not ship on Weekends and you know this, and you place an order at 9pm on Friday night...you should not send a message to the vendor on Sunday asking them why it was not shipped on Saturday. The OP in this case (if you read it)has had the order in there for over 4 days and the vendor will not return his messages, let alone read them, and clearly does not state on his account " please place your order, then know I only ship once a month". So my answer that you quoted was never to be confused with a vendor that states they only ship xyz. Then it is on the buyer 100%. And I know this is a problem. As a lot of buyers do not read the listing(can't even believe that is true but it totally is) and even more do not read the vendor page for the shipping policy of that said vendor. But there is no excuse ever for a vendor that does not have something listed on his account saying he only ships x times to have an order for more then 4 days! NEVER. That is total bullshit. No buyer should ever have to wait 4 days or more to have an item shipped. Unless the vendor states so. And no vendor should mark "in transit" when in fact it is not even packages let alone on the way to the post office. I know this stuff is rare..but it is not rare enough. There are some really shitty vendors. There are some that I can't even believe the buyers still go there. Their rating is like 90 or some shit number and they still get business. Though the beauty of this place is that you can see what you are getting yourself into. I can't stand the people that order from a vendor like xxx for example, then come in here and complain about what has happened to them. When in fact the feedback score is 87 and if the buyer spent 5 min looking into the vendor, they would run the other way. So if somehow you did not understand that I in no way could be talking about vendors that list their shipping schedules as they only ship on X days then I am sorry. I figured that was just a total given that I could in no way be talking about them, but that is my bad as I forgot where I was and who i am dealing with.