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Discussion => Off topic => Topic started by: IAA321 on July 28, 2012, 10:20 pm
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Hello everyone . I'm 16 and recently ran away due to my parents. I really need help on how to make money and good ideas. Currently I'm trying to find somewhere that I could pay rent but would need to figure out how to get money for rent in the first place. No this isn't a charity i'm not asking for any donations or anything . I just need help.
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u can make sure u have a place to stay and eat, by going to your local food shelter, and from there, u can go find a job like at mc'donalds for the meantime, if u needed to work and quick go to your local job force, depending your state u can find something quickly like a warehouse for 18 wheelers for hire
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Unless your parents are physically or sexually abusing you, you ought to go back. I remember when I was your age, and had similar feelings of unbelonging. It sucks and is tough.
But your parents love you even if they find it hard to express or say horrible things and you guys keep arguing all the time. Sometimes when your parents are acting more like children, then you have to be the adult and step up by making allowances to avoid volatile situations and keeping a tighter rein on your own feelings. It's not worth the both of you feeling hurt and betrayed for the rest of your lives, you should make peace.
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Definitely talk to someone and get a different perspective for contrast. You're too young to make this type of mistake. Go back home and apologize and talk to you parents like an adult. Remember to listen. Majority of a conversation is listening.
Do this and perform well in school and you'll be out of your parents in 2years at a university. You'll thank yourself later.
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Unless your parents are physically or sexually abusing you, you ought to go back. I remember when I was your age, and had similar feelings of unbelonging. It sucks and is tough.
But your parents love you even if they find it hard to express or say horrible things and you guys keep arguing all the time. Sometimes when your parents are acting more like children, then you have to be the adult and step up by making allowances to avoid volatile situations and keeping a tighter rein on your own feelings. It's not worth the both of you feeling hurt and betrayed for the rest of your lives, you should make peace.
+1, Enjoy the 100th Karma!
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Get a job and start slingin, you'll need the extra money. Best of luck.
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As already said you have absolutely no reason for not being at home unless you're being a abused...and this means sexually or heavy unnecessary physical abuse...anything else and you deserve to be thrown out.
Kids nowadays are all a bunch of self centered pieces of shit and most deserve to be physically abused simply for the state of mind they carry.
Sounds harsh ? Well I stand by what I say, and I fully believe every single child in the world who can TAKE a beating should GET a beating in any case where they for even a split second had zero fear because they DOUBTED a beating.
I won't list out guidelines trying to backtrack where some dick will come in and go "but what about such and such a case?" - you be an asshat, you deserve a beating.
I challenge you to find an argument against that...and if you do..well, you deserve a beating
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Sorry to hear about your situation. However, due to your age, you're likely not going to find an apartment since you have to be at least 18 to enter a legally binding contract, such as a housing agreement. You may be able to find a job somewhere around town if you look hard enough.
Best of luck,
sdesu
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Craigslist is your friend. Just have good judgement and you can find a shared pad and a job.
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Take it from someone who has made a similar mistake. I was 16 when I left my parent's (singular) home. My parent did not approve of my love interest. But I was in love and wanted to build a life around the person I was in love with. Needless to say we are no longer together. We found a small apartment through a friend and worked hard to keep things going. I worked at a local coffee shop and she as a waitress. It was rare we could get our bills paid, let alone keep food on the table. School and financial responsibilities where too much and I dropped school. I made the best with what I had and it wasn't much. This was some years ago and after the big breakup, homelessness and other mistakes I was sunk. I eventually moved back in with my parent, much wiser now but way behind the curve in terms of getting ahead of life. It took me years of hard work to bolster my education and get to some resemblance of successfulness. If it werent for that minor mistake there is no telling what I could have accomplished or where I would be now. Think very carefully about your decision and know it will impact the rest of your life, heavily. Unless you are being abused, mentally or physically I would reconsider leaving your home. Stick it out if you can, get your diploma and off to college you go where you can be free to express yourself anyway you see fit. Either way good luck
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give the kid a break. at that age he's got the world figured out!
and besides. I left home at 15 and look at me now. I made it up the ladder of life, all the way to internet drug dealer!!
and for the record, she WASN'T my step-sister when I fucked her, just by the time the baby was born!!! lol
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Unless you feel like selling your butthole on the street I'd suggest going home. How in the fuck did you even post on this website if you're homeless?
Because of the way that tor downloads, it's not hard to install it on a system that has a temporary/mass account, such as a public library...
I'm too gone to include a full story, but I would listen to some of the advice previously mentioned on this thread. Being out there at such a young age seems like such an empowering decision, but you'll soon learn it's VERY hard to get by at such a young age by yourself...
IF you do decide to use SR to make some money, I'd suggest going for the M.D.M.A..people easily pay 15-20 a .-01 and that shit costs less than $40 a gram if you go to the right vendor...
Anyways, good luck kid. I hope you don't get caught up in some bullshit, and that you figure out your problems and hopefully graduate with a college degree to make a honest living.
If I only knew what I know now when I was his age, I would have done things so much differently...
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1. Move back home.
2. Practise interviewing for jobs. This will help you with studying as well.
3.STUDY.
4. Get a job.
5. Apply to colleges and look into community colleges(financially the best decision you can make) for the 1st 2 years.
6. Live free(at peace) and be happy with you!
Also, you can earn money by doing clinical studies at hospitals. Look for studies that have an inclusion of minors. These can last anywhere from 10minsto a couple hours and pay up to $1000. I've done these in college and it was a big difference for my wallet :)
Anything else? Just ask.
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Unless your parents are physically or sexually abusing you, you ought to go back. I remember when I was your age, and had similar feelings of unbelonging. It sucks and is tough.
But your parents love you even if they find it hard to express or say horrible things and you guys keep arguing all the time. Sometimes when your parents are acting more like children, then you have to be the adult and step up by making allowances to avoid volatile situations and keeping a tighter rein on your own feelings. It's not worth the both of you feeling hurt and betrayed for the rest of your lives, you should make peace.
+infinity.
Couldn't have said it better.
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You feel this way about your parents because they care. If they DIDN'T care they would not try to help you.. or push you to be better.
If your parents are not sticking their penises in you then you need to go home.. and hug them tight.
They might not be here tomorrow.
THEY CARE. BE THANKFUL.
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As already said you have absolutely no reason for not being at home unless you're being a abused...and this means sexually or heavy unnecessary physical abuse...anything else and you deserve to be thrown out.
Kids nowadays are all a bunch of self centered pieces of shit and most deserve to be physically abused simply for the state of mind they carry.
Sounds harsh ? Well I stand by what I say, and I fully believe every single child in the world who can TAKE a beating should GET a beating in any case where they for even a split second had zero fear because they DOUBTED a beating.
I won't list out guidelines trying to backtrack where some dick will come in and go "but what about such and such a case?" - you be an asshat, you deserve a beating.
I challenge you to find an argument against that...and if you do..well, you deserve a beating
god i hope your kidding.
No one deserves a beating unless they use violence against someone else, and even then, if they are children rarely should get it.
Its the state of mind that parents should use violence against there children, is what turn them into violent people, drug addicts, and other dangerous things.
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I agree with what others have said, unless you suffer abuse at home, move back.
If you can't go back, then just be cautious and watchful. Be wary of people who might seem to be your friend, but want to use you. As a runaway you are very vulnerable to exploitation.
Obviously I dont know where you are (other than an english speaking country) but if you are in UK or USA look out for the Salvation Army. Much as I dislike organised religion, these guys, unlike many so-called Christians, do actually practice Christian values and actively help those in need.
If you are UK reply and I ll give you some places to try.
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. . . . Unless your parents are physically or sexually abusing you, you ought to go back. . . . make peace.
Listen to her! Go back home!
P.S. don't be bothered by posts like Tunbear. I know that having your brains beat out from the first memories I have as a child to when I became so big (your age) and I just grabbed those same fists commin at my head and said, '"You're not hitting me ever again! Green?"'
Beating anyone for any reason does nothing but propagate more mindless abuse. I never even spanked either of my children, just for those that think if you're abused you will abuse. Shrug? Sorry, I proved that doesn't have to be your future.
Take care
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Hello everyone . I'm 16
UMMMMMMM!!!!!
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give the kid a break. at that age he's got the world figured out!
and besides. I left home at 15 and look at me now. I made it up the ladder of life, all the way to internet drug dealer!!
and for the record, she WASN'T my step-sister when I fucked her, just by the time the baby was born!!! lol
Now THAT was funny!
Thank you!
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If your parents are not sticking their penises in you then you need to go home..
U just HAD to play the 'penis' card didn't you!