As long as you're not moonbear, there is hope :)Maybe this won't be much comfort, but what you're experiencing isn't that unusual. Humans need attachment/love or they feel bad. What you're experiencing, paradoxically, is a survival instinct. Joining a few clubs e.g. gyms, book clubs, sporting assoc, etc will greatly enhance your opportunities to interact with other humans! I know a few people with aspergers who have girlfriends/boyfriends. They have to try harder, but it is certainly more than possible.I think you're being hard on yourself, there are plenty of people without aspergers who have difficulty forming relationships in their 30s let me assure you! There's lots of lonely people out there who need hugs! You need to find those people and hug them. There should be 'flash mobs' for hugs or something. And taking a small quantity of MDMA is not as dumb an idea as some people think. 80 - 100 mg is enough.You probably know this already, but it's not a good idea to try too hard in some sense, it scares people if you're too friendly at first, introductions need to happen slowly over time, there is no algorithm for obtaining a relationship apart from hanging around them and being nice to them, and eventually they become your pals/friends/lovers. Spontaneous friendships and love at first sight events essentially are hollywood inventions. Arranged marriage is more realistic about human nature than hollywood's bizarre ideas about romance.