I on the other hand am quite glad I'm the only one who hasn't thought about a doctor's finger up my ass. . . hehe. what's with you guys? LOLOk, I'm having the same issue too. I'm 38 and its been about a year now that errections have been a chore. I tired viagra but it didn't really work as expected. Doctor says its psycological then and nothing can be done.The wife is starting to complain. Let me know if you find a solution.. .