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Title: The change
Post by: Crispy on November 21, 2011, 02:59 am
Well guys heres the skinny. I am not gonna get to detailed but I just got back from three dr today for something that I been thinking about doing since I was real little. a few months ago I met someone that is in transition from becoming a man to a woman. I instantly made friends with her and we have become really good friends. I talked to her bout th is and explained that I had a motive of befriending her that I too feel as a woman inside unfortunately I am very manly and have always had a problem feeling comfortable in my body. Well all that changed due to a shroom trip that opened my eyes a few weeks ago today I met with the dr for the first time answered questions and had blood drawn I feel good that my first steps are over its gonna be a long one but I had to tell someone so why not my friends at sr
Title: Re: The change
Post by: Addy on November 25, 2011, 05:35 am
Good luck, mate. The rest of the world generally isn't as friendly and accepting as SR.
Title: Re: The change
Post by: MagicMan on November 25, 2011, 04:35 pm
We're friendly and accepting as long as what you're talking about is in our comfort zone. We'll hate you if you are a purveyor of child porn, we, with some exception, wont like you if you sell explosives on here, we'll be iffy about weapons, and I'm sure there are some other off-limits subjects here. But yeah, good luck and I hope the transition is easy for you
Title: Re: The change
Post by: lrp72 on November 25, 2011, 05:31 pm
Good luck to you.  I have often thought how nightmarish it would be to feel like you were the wrong gender.  I hope everything works out well for you.
Title: Re: The change
Post by: PriscillaMarie90 on November 25, 2011, 05:42 pm
I'm happy for you, it's wonderful that you can finally just enjoy life. Good luck to you, I hope everything goes well and most of all I hope you can be truly happy!

<3
Title: Re: The change
Post by: j789745 on November 25, 2011, 09:43 pm
Good luck with your transition! :)
Title: Re: The change
Post by: Chez on November 25, 2011, 10:11 pm
Awesome to see all positive responses so far, and it had better fucking stay that way.

Congrats on being true to yourself and best of luck to you!
Title: Re: The change
Post by: Dobbs on November 25, 2011, 11:55 pm
Bravo for your bravery!  I've had a few friends transition their gender.  Two male to female and one female to male.  Just be absolutely sure it IS what you are cause there's no going back.  One of the things one of my friends had to learn was the "training" that we all receive from birth based on our gender.  You were trained to be a man, you might need to study up on the small things that all women were trained on.  You will also have to accept a new physical weakness once you are castrated (I know guys sorry, don't cringe) ...your testosterone gives you strength.  Without this strength you may feel vulnerable and you will need to get used to that as well and maybe learn new rules of where and when you can go alone (like women shouldn't be in the park in the night by themselves etc).

Anyway, :D  good luck and get a good counselor.  My friends went to Thailand for the whole package at once (they took step by step pics of the operation that she made us look at ugh), was $15K plus air.

The late great Jimmi Hendrix said "I'm the one that's got to die when it comes time for me to die, so let me live my life the way I want to!" 
Title: Re: The change
Post by: madamebradley on November 26, 2011, 02:11 am
I also had a close friend have her M-to-F operation in Thailand. She's a lot happier now. I hope you have the same success Crispy!
Title: Re: The change
Post by: j789745 on November 27, 2011, 06:30 pm
Yep, Thailand is the place to go if you're looking to make your outside fit your inside on the cheap. :)
Title: Re: The change
Post by: Dobbs on November 29, 2011, 12:23 pm
Thailand isnt just for trans people, lots of others go as well for face lifts, tummy tucks and boob jobs. 
Title: Re: The change
Post by: ProudCannabian on November 30, 2011, 06:48 pm
Good luck!
I may not be happy with myself, but I don't think I could ever get plastic surgery of any type.
I figure we're all different for a reason though, and if you feel so different you need surgery to complete yourself, then that is up to you.
Kudos on your bravery and focus!
Title: Re: The change
Post by: DigitalAlch on November 30, 2011, 07:17 pm
Good luck, and best wishes your way friend.
Hope this kindness find you in good health : )

Peace,
DigitalAlch
Title: Re: The change
Post by: Dobbs on November 30, 2011, 08:40 pm
One thing to think about is to store some sperm before you make the final change, if you go that far.  You may want a child someday and you can find a surrogate.
Title: Re: The change
Post by: Mr. Anderson on November 30, 2011, 11:12 pm
..... Well all that changed due to a shroom trip that opened my eyes a few weeks ago today....


Were those Rocker's shrooms? I was planning to trip tonight, but might have to hold off....


But seriously, good luck! And don't just tell us. SHOUT it from the rooftops!!!!! Congratulations!