Ask him to give you a refund on shipping or provide a tracking number to you to prove when he sent it. If he doesn't, then tell him he gets a 1/5 and tell him to blacklist you and me for giving you the advice. I had a vendor banned and he "blacklisted" me with his account that was banned and his new account. I don't know if anyone ever looks at it. Once they see my stats with 42 purchases and 1 refund in the many months that I have been here, I don't know that they would even check. If they do, just open a new account. If vendors can do it, so can you.