It should not be saving the actual texts you send. Usually they need to get a warrant to get them anyway.As far as billing. If you have detailed billing then you are fucked, unless you pay extra for it, then maybe you could cancel it. Call them, tell them the truth as long as it isn't illegal, if so, tell them you have been cheating on your wife, if they say no, ask for the cancellation department. Ask for a supervisor. Tell them to do it or you will cancel your service. Start out nice, then escalate. If that doesn't work, call back and hope you get someone more helpful.Last resort. Make sure you get the bill and get rid of it and close your online account. Hell hack it yourself and change passwords.I wouldn't trust someone with that skill, hackers like that hack into govt. agencies, with my personal info. Hell they could seal your identity.