You have plausible deniability even if it is your own name on the package. How is it provable that you actually intended to receive the package? I also recommend holding on to the package for a couple of days before opening if you are seriously paranoid, because you could always say "I didn't order whatever this is - I was going to return to sender, that's why it isn't opened."Always make sure you deal with sellers who have PGP and encrypt your shipping info.